Is 'Beautiful' same as 'Hot'?

It is really a hell of a task to be a man. Men come across beauties, and beauties of beauties, but for goodness’ sake, they can’t just have all of them. The real task is not just in choosing the best, but in distinguishing who is beautiful from who is just ‘hot’.

Every girl wants that prestigious title ‘hot chic’ more than anything. Denying her that is worse than denying her life itself. I don’t know how good it is to be called that, neither do I understand its importance. Girls will always work so hard to be called that. They will do anything to get those make-ups that will award them that prestigious title, even if it means going for them in hell. Well, it’s not their fault. Every man wants his girlfriend to be called that too. Moreover, it is the ‘hot chics’ that take first place in winning the ‘hearts’ of the campus boys, and conquering the pockets of ‘sponsors’.

I admit that life would not be as interesting as it is if every girl was not working tirelessly to obtain this noble title. It’s not every day you’d get to see a woman’s thighs, barely covered just a few inches from the waist, or a well exposed cleavage. With everybody acting as if it is normal to see these unscrupulous behaviours, life must be very interesting. It is funny how everyone has forgotten the meaning of private parts, or even if they exist. Is it not madness for a man to courageously walk in company of his partner, dressed in lucid clothes, barely covering what they are supposed to cover? Anyway, a wise man will tell you, “modernization is a change we all desire, and we have to accept the effects that comes with it, if we are to accept the benefits it brings.” After all, these are what make life interesting.

The efforts to be ‘hot’ are totally misguided because girls think they are actually making themselves more beautiful. With every contemptuous act justified, with every bogus dress allowed, with every ‘private part’ exposed, we are left with no other way to save our society but to learn the difference between being ‘hot’ and being ‘beautiful’. Did you know that a beautiful lady is not the same as a ‘hot chic’? Consider this, which man ever calls his wife ‘hot chic’? That would be too disrespectful. This is a term used only by boys referring to their bimbo girlfriends, with whom their relationship has no future. Every man wants to marry a beautiful woman, and not a ‘hot chic’. As much as beautiful and hot may grammatically mean the same thing, they mean totally different things in the real world.

From the dressing, reasoning, speech, behavior, it is possible to tell if a lady is beautiful, or ‘hot’. I hope we are in agreement that beauty is not just defined by physical appearances. One intelligent lady once said, “My dress, my choice. I don’t dress to impress your masculinity, I dress to express your feminity”. She was right, just that men will never view it that way, and by expressing her feminity, she will not keep herself from impressing the men’s masculinity. Thus, expressing her feminity and impressing masculinity mean the same thing. What exactly would a ‘hot chic’ do? Of course, she’ll be the one to express her feminity, thus impressing masculinity. However, a beautiful girl dresses to suppress her feminity, thus suppressing masculinity. It profits you nothing to impress every man that sees you. Gaining every man’s attention in the streets does not make a girl special, but degrades her personality, ask around. ‘Hot chics’ are attractive to men, yes, but only for a temporary pleasure, nothing more. Men view them as nothing better than a bimbo groupie, a slut or a whore.

What is beauty without brains? Nothing. We’ll have to agree again that having brains is not just referring to academic excellence. ‘Hot chics’ are the ones that will always give in to every seduction, so long as there is material gain in the end. They do not care for their own bodies. They never think of the aftermath of their decisions, for they are so consumed with their materialistic nature. However, the beautiful girl reasons out and weighs options. She makes choices that are not just good for her, but for her future too. She cares for her body, and respects herself, in every way. In the manner she carries out herself, she expresses the perfection of her feminity, not in some unscrupulous dressing modes.

I don’t know what it is to be a woman, that is what every lady out there will tell me. I really don’t. But I do know that being a decent woman is not about chasing everything that will acquire one the mediocre title of ‘hot chic’, but conducting oneself as someone worthy of being called a beautiful woman. I do know that it is beautiful women that our society needs, and not the so called ‘hot chics’, and that’s what every lady out there should know. Now go ahead and tell me, “You know you’ve never been a girl Vincent, you don’t know what it means to be a girl”, and I readily agree.